Every guy wants a sexy woman. The problem is that sexy women get hit on all the time and have a ton of options. To succeed with these hot babes, you have to find a way to stand out from the crowd. Here are 10 ways to attract sexy women that will get you going in the right direction and help you make a big impact on the hottie you want.
Start with No.10
No.10 - Flirt with all women
Practice being interesting, funny, challenging, and unpredictable in situations where you're seeing the same woman over and over, such as at your favorite coffee shops, restaurants, grocery stores, etc. When you tease and bust on a woman whom you're not interested in, and continue to keep the sexual tension up, other women will pick up on your confident vibe and wonder why you’re not flirting with them. Nice.
No.9 - Tease her
Sexy women will never admit it, but they love it when you tease and bust on them like there’s no tomorrow. Why? Because you're activating powerful sexual drives and female emotions that most men will never trigger inside of her -- and she'll be grateful to you for it. Even though an outsider might look at an evening that you spend with her and say: "He didn't treat her very well; he was difficult, very challenging and not complimentary at all,” at the end of the evening the woman you're with will go home with a deep, profound feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be able to describe. So take the time to learn.
No.8 - Be exciting to sexy women online
Sexy women get 50 e-mails from guys every day. If you want to stand out, you need to make fun of them. Instead of writing the typical “You sound very interesting, we have a lot in common…” try something like “Hey, I don't think that this picture is really you. What, did you go to the mall and get one of those glamour shots done or something? Do you have a real picture? Like you at home on your Stairmaster or something? Or do you even work out? OK, stop trying to fool all of us guys and let's see what you really look like." Nice is boring, and it's never more boring than when it's online -- in a place where there are a million other "nice" guys who have zero personalities chasing after her.
No.7 - Lead her
Regardless of the situation, a sexy woman wants you to lead the way. You're going to have to take the next step in some way. Don't wait around and hope something happens. There's always a smooth, interesting way to take the ball and move forward with it. If you don't, you'll spend many of your evenings snuggling up to the TV.
No.6 - Pass the sexy-woman test
Most guys miss the point entirely when a woman starts testing them. Instead of turning up the volume and hitting the ball right back over the net twice as fast, most guys just crumble and lose all the energy, sexual tension and chemistry that was in the situation. When a woman throws down the challenge, or starts to test you, instead of responding by saying: "OK, whatever you want," you need to create even more tension, turn it up and understand how to amplify the sexual tension and attraction in the situation. If you don’t understand tests, you'll just misinterpret everything that happens and miss all your opportunities.
No.5 - Be a leader
Sexy women aren't attracted to Wussies. So how could you characterize a Wuss? A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive and insecure. A Wussy isn't in control, and he doesn't make decisions. Women feel attraction for men who demonstrate the qualities of a leader. How could you characterize a leader? A leader is a man who is in control of the situation, and who makes decisions and follows through on them without needing approval from others. Be a leader -- sexy women will love you for it.
No.4 - Date her casually
How do women know if a man is interested in them for a "long-term" relationship or if he's just interested in dating casually? The trigger for this is how often you see them and how often you call them. Of course, there's more to it, like whether or not you buy gifts, talk about how you feel, ask her to be your girlfriend, etc. But if you want to just see a woman casually and not have her become "hooked" on you, then don't call her more than a couple of times a week, and don't see her more than once a week -- maybe twice sometimes.
No.3 - Stop chasing
I can remember when I used to call women too often, and if they didn't show up, I'd get upset and try to set up another date with them, etc. Of course, they'd usually play hard to get, and wind up thinking that I was a Wussy because I just accepted their flaky behavior. Well, after I stopped calling back women who flaked and basically stopped chasing women, I had the strangest thing happen; I had women call me -- sometimes weeks later. When a woman flakes, don’t worry about it. Just move on. She'll probably start flirting with you again when the timing’s right.
No.2 - Give her space
If a woman says: "I need time to get to know myself" or "I need to find myself" or any variation of this common theme, it usually means you were acting like a Wuss, being clingy and generally not a challenge anymore. If you become too predictable, too involved, too needy, too Wuss-ish, and too "head over heels" too early in the relationship, it will drive a woman away. Sexy women have guys chasing them far more than the average or below-average women. You need to do something different, while at the same time being attractive. Probably the best thing you can do when you finally meet a really great girl is call her half as much as you normally would, and give her twice the space. Think about it.
No.1 - Be willing to hit the road
I get so many e-mails from guys who have met a great girl, but they screwed it up because they made her "too important" mentally. In other words, when things started to get difficult, instead of taking the attitude of "next," which creates all kinds of attraction, they cling and do exactly the things that cause the woman to hit the road for good. It’s much better to have the mental attitude of "I'm going to enjoy this woman's company for as long as it stays a good thing. The moment that she becomes a strain or a pain I'm out of here. I don't need problems or drama in my life.” The first response to this is usually: "But this woman is special. She's not like other women. She's the one." If she's the one, then all the more reason to take this attitude. It’ll do a lot of good things for your success with women. Use it.
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source: askmen.com
Saturday, November 7, 2009
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